Birth date: Dec 24, 1968 Death date: Mar 11, 2026
Ruth Ann Bilder was born December 24, 1968 in Tulsa to Frank and Jayne Osgood. She died peacefully on Wednesday March 11th at Clarehouse in Tulsa. She was raised in Claremore, graduating from Green Country Christian Academy in 19 Read Obituary
During our time at the Claremore Indian Hospital, Ruth was my co-worker and working alongside her was a genuine pleasure. The humor we both shared made our private meetings unforgettable. I feel privileged to have been a small part of her life. My heartfelt condolences.
Quinn Satepauhoodle-Proctor
Dear Ruth, you truly are a genuine wonderful human being. All the time we worked together you exemplified strong work ethics and sound character. Your light however dimmed for now will live on through the lives of your children. You spoke often of them and we shared our children's stories with a genuine heart of love. I have missed through the years our office chit chat and what we called our "therapy sessions". Leaning on each other we strived to make our lives better for ourselves and those we love. I see your beautiful face here and all those great memories come flooding back. May your new journey be filled with love, kindness, comfort, and care. This from me; may God's love comfort your loved ones and especially your children. You've left a legacy behind, may they come to understand your great love for them. As they gather together may your spirit be in the midst whether it be the sound of their voices, their words or facial expressions and mannerisms. May each of them carry you in their heart and look up from time to time to know they are loved so greatly.
My life is better for having met and known you girl. My heart is sad today. You will forever be in my heart and when I visit The Gathering Place may our last conversation be forever remembered. Rest in peace, we got it from here. All my love, Shelbi
Ruth was an incredible friend and a cherished member of the Class of 1987 — the kind of person whose kindness and friendship left a lasting mark on everyone who knew her. Cheers to Ruth!
