Roland Lashlee Miller's Obituary
Roland Lashlee Miller, a devoted husband, father, and craftsman, passed away peacefully, leaving behind a legacy of hard work, dedication, and kindness that touched all who knew him.
Born in Tucson, Arizona, he lived in El Paso, Texas as a young child, then later moved and was raised in Mountain View, Arkansas, Roland grew up on his father's farm, where he learned the values of honest work and perseverance while cultivating green beans, cucumbers, and oats. These early experiences on the farm shaped his character and instilled in him the practical skills that would serve him throughout his life. He came to love Bluegrass music that was rooted in the Arkansas Mountains.
Seeking new opportunities, Roland moved to Tulsa, where he learned carpentry skills from his father and began building what would become a distinguished career in woodworking. He worked at Southern Mils and Tracy Wood Shop, where he eventually became the owner of Tracy Wood Shop. His expertise and attention to detail led him to specialize in museum restoration work, where his craftsmanship helped preserve important historical pieces. Among his notable projects was his work on St. John Episcopal Church in Tulsa and restoration work for the Price family in Bartlesville.
On December 15, 1951, Roland married the love of his life, Norma Roden, at Beams of Light Tabernacle in Tulsa. Their loving union blessed them with two daughters, Peggy and Teresa, whom they raised in Bixby with deep devotion and care.
Roland was the quintessential hands-on, do-it-yourself kind of man who approached every project with determination and frugality. His practical nature and conservative values were evident in everything he did, including roofing his own home-a testament to his self-reliance and skill.
Family time was precious to Roland, and he cherished the many weekends spent camping and waterskiing on Lake Tenkiller with his beloved family, as well as trips to visit his parents in Arizona and Arkansas. These outdoor adventures created lasting memories and strengthened the bonds that held his family close.
Those who knew Roland remember him as a genuinely nice man who was appreciative, kind, and considerate. He possessed a rare quality of always being mindful of other people's feelings, treating everyone with respect and compassion. Even during his battle with dementia, he was also grateful and appreciative for every meal and type of assistance provided to him.
Roland is survived by his two daughters, Peggy Cameron and Teresa Jones and her husband, Mike; his grandchildren, Jim Cameron and his wife, Becky, Jessica Cameron Mize, Jonathan Cameron and his wife, Amy, and Fawn Jones Shibley and her husband, Joel; and his great-grandchildren, Megan Cameron, Jesse Cameron, Bailey Cameron, Colton Mize, Avery Mize, Kiley Mize, Dylan Cameron, Graves Shibley, and Lyla Shibley.
He was preceded in death by his parents, his beloved wife, Norma, and son-in-law Steve Cameron and Paul Mize.
Roland's legacy lives on through his family and the countless lives he touched with his kindness, craftsmanship, and unwavering consideration for others. His memory will be cherished by all who were fortunate enough to know him.
The family would also like to thank the team at Miller Hospice for their care and compassion during his final days.
A visitation is scheduled for Wednesday, September 17, 2025, from 6pm-8pm at Bixby South-Tulsa Funeral Service located at 13307 S Memorial Dr, Bixby, OK 74008. A private family service will be held at a later date.
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