Birth date: Aug 3, 1963 Death date: Jul 9, 2021
John Bretanus Obituary A memorial gathering celebrating the life of John Lewis Bretanus will be held from 6-8 PM Friday, July 16 at the James E. McNellie’s Pub, 409 E. 1st Street downtown Tulsa. A few words of comfort and a time o Read Obituary
The day Johnny and I met in the halls of Edison junior high school turned out to be typical of many days to follow. I would run my big mouth and Johnny would save me. In the early days it was from a fistfight. Later he would protect me from other things. When I was away at college he would meet me on the highway because I didn’t want to hunt birds alone. Johnny showed up. When I moved to Florida, Johnny showed up. When I moved to North Carolina, Johnny showed up. There is no place I have lived that Johnny hasn’t stood. Going out with Johnny in high school was like going out with James Dean. Good luck getting the girl! Like others have said, I too was always impressed with his determination and work ethic, that so many lack. They say that we are a product of our parents. Ronnie’s love and Ray's discipline formed a great bunch of kids and Johnny was an example of that, but we all know that Johnny had special qualities that were unlike anyone else we know. Bretanus family - I love you always and please know that my life is richer for knowing all of you. Woody-
The poet Mary Oliver wrote, "Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" John and I were friends for almost 50 years. Half a century. I can't imagine my life without him or his family. Momma B would always welcome me in their home, and his dad, Big Ray, loved to tease me, calling me by my dad's name, "There's Harry Becko!" I miss them both and often think of Momma B's delicious cinnamon french toast. I've always admired the Bretanus family's grit and determination. All of them are successful entrepreneurs. I especially admired John's ability to live a simple life, free from judgment or criticism. He had a big heart and friends from all walks of life. He was the magnet that brought us all together. The last few months were hard on him, and I prayed every day for his well-being and ultimately for a peaceful deliverance. Man, we had some good times together. I'll miss his crazy laugh (an outburst, really), his quick smile, and his cutting wit. It was a privilege, and I'm so happy and proud that I got to share John's wild and precious life. I loved him dearly and can barely think of him now without weeping. My heart goes out to the Bretanus family, Michelle, and Kennedy, and to all of those who knew and loved John. Rest in peace, brother. You'll always be on my mind and in my heart. God bless.
John was a true ray of sunshine, he will be missed by all who knew him. So very sorry for your family’s loss.
Gosh where so I start? I spent many years on the football field or on wrestling mat and in the classroom with Johnny. I could always count on Johnny to protect me from Tony how hated me!lol Johnny was the life of the party , loved bye the ladies and a friend to so many people! I feel like I lost a brother and he will never be forgotten, love to Robbie , Kathy and Chuck and there families and Johnny's beautiful daughter ❤️
Johnny B’s laugh and smirking facial expressions could have been Trademarked. What a terrific guy who will be sorely missed. I am still in somewhat of a shock. Prayers go out to the Bretanus family.
