Howard Carr Frank's Obituary
Howard Carr Frank, a pillar of strength, generosity, and humble leadership, passed away on Wednesday, April 30, 2024, at Montereau in Tulsa, Oklahoma. He was 86 years old.
Born in Poteau, Oklahoma, on March 21, 1938, to Vivian and Gattie Frank, Howard's early years were marked by resilience and determination. During his father's service in World War II, Howard and his mother temporarily relocated, fostering his adaptability from a young age. He began his education in Wichita, Kansas, before returning to Poteau, where he graduated from Poteau High School. Howard played football for the Pirates, as well as the trombone during halftime in the marching band.
Howard's journey intertwined deeply with his beloved Lynda Lee Lowrey, whom he married on July 10, 1959, in Poteau First Christian Church. Their bond endured through the years, anchoring Howard as he pursued his dreams and built a legacy of integrity and compassion.
Education was a cornerstone of Howard's life. He attended the University of Oklahoma, earning a Bachelor of Business Administration in Finance in 1961. During his time at OU, he was a proud member of the Kappa Sigma Fraternity, fostering lifelong connections and a spirit of camaraderie.
Howard's professional career was marked by excellence and dedication. From an early age, he worked alongside his father in the family construction business, mastering the craft of drafting and building. Following his father's untimely passing, Howard assumed leadership, guiding Gatie C. Frank Construction Company to new heights, constructing everything from residential housing to federal buildings.
His tenure with Cities Service Oil Company (later Occidental Petroleum Company) showcased his leadership prowess and financial acumen. Rising through the ranks, Howard's contributions were recognized with the Executive Award from Harvard University's Graduate School of Business Administration in 1972.
Beyond his professional achievements, Howard was deeply committed to his community. Whether serving as a Mason, leading Junior Achievement programs, or supporting cancer research through the American Cancer Society, Howard's impact was far-reaching and enduring.
Family was Howard's greatest joy and priority. He and Lynda raised their children, Leah and David, with love and unwavering support. In retirement, Howard cherished moments with his grandchildren and enjoyed golf, travel, and the simple pleasures of life.
Howard's legacy of kindness, integrity, and leadership will continue to inspire all who knew him. His warm smile, boundless generosity, and zest for life left an indelible mark on the hearts of those who had the privilege of calling him friend or family.
Surviving family include his wife, Lynda Lee Lowrey Frank of Tulsa; daughter, Leah Lyn Frank Graves of Durham, NC, son, David Lowrey Frank and his wife, Kimberly Czsyz Frank of Augusta, GA; and his grandchildren, Mary Lyn Graves of Brooklyn, NY, Gregory Lee Graves of New York City, NY, and Cameron Marie Frank of Augusta, GA.
A memorial service to celebrate Howard's remarkable life is scheduled for Saturday afternoon, May 11 at 2 pm in the Chapel at Montereau. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Endowment Fund at Harvard Avenue Christian Church or the Oklahoma Medical Research Foundation.
Though Howard may have left this earthly realm, his spirit lives on in the countless lives he touched, forever remembered with love and gratitude.
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