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We are very excited to announce and would like to invite you to join the........ BETTER TOGETHER LADIES GROUP
Better Together Ladies Group is an aftercare service provided by Bixby Funeral Service. Our goal is to provide a community of support and encouragement for women who have lost their spouse or significant other.
While there is no way to remove the pain of losing a loved one, we are hopeful this group would help to ease the pain. We all grieve uniquely, but all people find comfort in belonging to a close-knit group that offers encouragement and support.
Better Together Ladies Group provides comfort and encouragement in the following ways:

  • A place to meet others who have experienced a similar loss
  • Support from feeling alone or isolated
  • An opportunity to meet new friends
  • Opportunities to participate in organized events: social meet-ups, movie nights, game days and service projects in the community

Sharing Loss, Sharing Life

By remembering and honoring our past, we believe we can be a source of strength and inspiration for each other and those around us.

BETTER TOGETHER EVENTS - Click on the calendar to review new events and remember to check back here often!


Come join us for games and snacks.  We meet the 1st Thursday of the month @ 6:00 pm. Carla’s 8324 e 117th St. S, Bixby, Ok 74008.  Bring your favorite snack!


Every Monday at 6:30 at Washington Irving Park - 13700 S Memorial Dr, Bixby. Every Wednesday at 6:30 at Evergreen Baptist Church - 10301 E. 111th St. S., Bixby. We will take a stroll or two around the park.


Dinner Night @ 5:30 pm. We will be going to BJ's Brewhouse (9090 E. 71st St. Tulsa). If you would like, we will meet at Carla's at 5:00 pm to ride together or feel free.

This is an opportunity for our working women to share a meal together with friends. We meet at a different restaurant the 2nd Thursday of every month @ 5:30 p.m. The location can be found on the monthly calendar. (dinner is at your own expense)


Movie name and exact time will be released closer to date.

Who doesn’t like a good movie and popcorn? So, come join us on the 3rd Tuesday of the month. We go to the early movie (7pm ish) @ B&B Theater 10302 S Memorial Dr, Tulsa, Ok 74133. The movie time and title can be found on the monthly calendar after the theater releases the information. (cost of movie and snacks at your own expense)

COOKOUT (10/13)

6 PM cookout at Carla’s 8324 e 117th St. S, Bixby, Ok 74008. Bring your favorite side dish!


11:30 am. We are going to Savastanos Pizza (8211 E. Regal Pl. Ste 109, Tulsa). We can meet at Carla's house at 11 am and drive together—8324 E 117th St. S, Bixby.

This is an opportunity to share a meal together with friends in the middle of the month. We meet at a different restaurant the 4th Monday of every month @ 11:30 a.m. The location can be found on the monthly calendar. (lunch is at your own expense)

Newsletter October

Here we are moving away from hot summer days into cooler weather. We are looking forward to the leaves changing and being able to spend more time outdoors (hopefully together).

In celebration of that, we are planning a foliage drive Saturday, November 7th. Mark your calendar and plan to join us for this beautiful trip (details will be in the Nov newsletter).

Also, as the days get cooler, we are remined of the warmth of friendship. With that in mind, we are planning a cookout on Oct. 13th!

Please refer to the calendar above for our events this month!
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