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About Us

Who we are

Celebrating life since 1983

Since 1983, Bixby-South Tulsa Funeral Service and Crematory has offered premier funeral services to Bixby and the Tulsa metropolitan area. Find out more about us here.

What we stand for

Our promise

Today, tomorrow, and forever, our commitment to you stays the same.


Every life is unique, and we promise to honor and respect each journey, crafting ceremonies that reflect each individual.


Navigating grief can be overwhelming; we stand by you, providing direction and solace every step of the way.


Beyond a service, we're committed to helping families create lasting tributes that transcend generations.

Our story

Bixby-South Tulsa Funeral Service and Crematory, established in 1983 by Jack and Carol Selby in Bixby, Oklahoma, has long been a beacon of compassionate care and quality service in the community. Jack, who found his calling in funeral service as a high school junior, built a respected establishment after completing his mortuary science education. As Bixby grew, so did the funeral home's reputation for aiding families through grief.

In 2017, a new chapter began with Oklahoma natives and licensed funeral directors Jody and Kara Greene joining the Selby family business. Embracing the legacy, they remodeled the living quarters to make Bixby their home, bringing fresh energy and dedication to the service.

In 2019, the funeral home welcomed Christopher Teel, a Tulsa native and experienced funeral director, as a business partner. Chris, who has successfully led preplanning initiatives and is known for his compassionate service, joins the team with his wife Katie and their two children, enhancing the funeral home's commitment to the community.

As the Selby family steps into a well-deserved retirement, Jody and Kara, along with Chris, continue to innovate while maintaining the core values of care and support. Offering unique services like certified celebrant-led ceremonies and preplanning assistance, Bixby-South Tulsa Funeral Service and Crematory pledges to honor and remember the loved ones of their community with utmost respect and dedication, upholding a legacy of service and healing.


Legacies Honored


Years in Business


Moments Remembered

Meet the team

Our incredible staff

Helping families create lasting legacies is more than a job — it's our calling. We are here to support you in any way we can and will offer you the full attention, knowledge, and compassion you need.

Christopher Teel

Christopher Teel

Owner & Funeral Director

Jody Greene

Jody Greene

Owner & Funeral Director

Kara Greene

Kara Greene

Owner & Funeral Director

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Our Locations

A place of healing

We welcome you to explore the Bixby-South Tulsa Funeral Service and Crematory facilities, and invite you to discover a comforting and peaceful place to honor your loved one.

We're here for you

We exist to serve the unique needs of every family

Reception Center

Our Reception Center provides a convenient and welcoming space for funeral gatherings. We offer a seamless experience with full support for catering needs, ensuring a dignified and comfortable environment for families to unite and remember their loved ones.

Private Cremation Center

Our private cremation center offers families the opportunity to be present during their loved one's cremation, providing a personal and meaningful farewell. Our facility offers a respectful and comforting environment, ensuring privacy and solace during this solemn moment.

Around the Clock Support

We're here to answer any questions and help in any way we can – 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year.

Seamless Arrangements

We'll help you with everything you need with a simple step-by-step process for all of your funeral, cremation and cemetery plans.


Hear from the families we've served

“Very compassionate and available! They were quick with responses and we felt like we were in very good hands.”

Author: Kay Tedford rated with 5 stars

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We're hiring

Beyond the opportunity to truly make a difference, Bixby-South Tulsa Funeral Service and Crematory offers competitive pay, a healthy work-life balance, and many opportunities for growth.

Plan Ahead

Plan for the future, today

Pre-planning lets your loved ones focus on honoring life instead of hashing out details. Learn the choices you can make now, so a future funeral becomes more of a celebration than a burden.